A New Year's Eve Sentiment

a year has passed and all that pain's gone, but the memory of it stays - but not as pain, not anymore, rather, as a lesson - a lasting mark that inspires a new brand of loving - one that is more decisive yet careful, more reasonable but passionate, above all, one that's clearer, truer.

My dear Christmas Wish

To my dear Christmas wish,

Just to be honest, my Christmas was cold...it was dry,
my family kept me warm but what kept me warm more was the very thought of you. The thought that maybe some day, we will be okay - better than how we were before the vacation, better than how you treated me after I've told you I like you...

You are such a very complicated person, someone who would be very hard to read. How can I read you when you're a shut book? How can I tell myself there is absolutely nothing behind your big cover, if I haven't been able to bring it down?

I am hoping though, that once the truth comes out, and it will, that you will be happy, maybe not happy with me, but let me be there, let me be there for you.
But insofar as the present is concerned? One thing I'm sure of - that's I want you by my side, make my winter warm, make my days brighter, bring my true smile back - only you could do that.

If you are indeed reading this, then I'd be glad to consider myself lucky. Lucky basically because we haven't exactly been best of friends the past weeks but at least now you know what my heart's been saying. It was not at all easy to tell that you are my Christmas wish...as a cliche goes, "all I want for Christmas is YOU", well that's not true...'cause all I want for Christmas is us.
:)

Love love.
JE M Miguel Eva VIII

Love/Lust/Infatuation

these are some things about how to differentiate love from lust and from infatuation:

- Love is when you love the whole person (spirit, heart, mind and body), lust is when you only love part of them, which means that you see only part of the person as having value and that the whole person is not valuable.

- Keep in mind that in most relationships, you're feeling all three (love, infatuation, and lust) all at once, to some degree.

-Remember that jealousy is not a result of love. It is more likely to be a result of infatuation, insecurity or fear of being alone. Are you in love with being in relationships?

- Give it some time. Love takes root slowly and grows with time. Infatuation grows into full bloom almost immediately.

- Keep in mind that "True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be and will not be." (Unknown)

-If you're not sure about your feelings or your relationship, take things slowly, introspect. Spend time apart and see how you are feeling while you are away. Do you miss the person? Or are you more attracted to others when you are apart?

- Lust only cares for itself (self love). Lust always focuses on an object to fulfill its desire.

- Lust is part of the material world attempting to satisfy one of the five senses. Lust's sole aim is to satisfy the flesh. Love transcends the material world and is solely focused on spiritual things. Love's sole motive is to bestow affection and compassion upon people and God.


I don't know exactly why I reposted this note from a friend, but I think it's worth the effort reading. But maybe, just maybe, I want to take hold of this because sometimes, when I feel some thing/s towards some person/s, I just don't know how to put it, and how to do about it in time...

It has been a lesson to me to know something before taking it seriously. I hope this lesson serves me well, because I am about to feel love/lust/infatuation for someone I'm certain I want being part of my life - I just don't know how.

sources:
http://www.wikihow.com/Know-the-Difference-Between-Love,-Infatuation-and-Lust
http://www.access-jesus.com/difference-between-love-and-lust.html

Late Night Soup

I don't know what to do this late, (almost midnight) so I start typing stuff on a blog of mine that no one reads. I'm at our village clubhouse trying to make the most out of the free wi-fi (though technically, it's not free since were paying the dues) and at a time like this, and where I'm seated, there's a lot of mosquitoes flying around and biting me. I just hope I won't get sick one of these days...
Well you know what they say, more people get sick in third world countries. But then, I'd like to believe that just because we're in the topics doesn't mean were somehow 'condemned' to be poorer, sicker and less smart. I don't believe in Environmental Determinism. I think if there's a way to break the determinism, that's to be determined in doing it.

Well so much for humanity, and Oprah-ish advices, let me tell you something that makes me real mad... There's this 'JBA' I met in school last month, and she's very cute. I like her very much and I'm very lucky we're classmates on Tuesdays and Thursdays. JBA's in a relationship with someone I don't know much but we're friends...Facebook friends. Well anyways, I don't think it's a sin to hang out with JBA right? Or a little more than that? It won't hurt anyone and I won't steal JBA, I promise. :)
But in all these, what makes me a bit mad is the fact that there's this other friend of mine, Louie, and he wants to do the same! This is a duel. It's a match. (well seriously though, there are a lot of other 'JBA's to choose from, haha!)

I guess it's time to retire. Gotta go to Climatology class tomorrow at ten. Bed, here I come.

The class that could freak you out

research about Australian Rappelling. that's what we do Tuesdays and Thursdays. :|

Five Odd Loves

“Five Odd Loves”, a story about five typical and sometimes not-typical-at-all college students and their bitter, hurt, empty, or confused hearts, is here not to be read as something apart from you but to somehow shed light into YOUR OWN EXPERIENCES and what you may be going through, or about to go through in the future---“

A group of five college students were drinking in Cantina, a restobar just outside their university. While drinking, they reminisce about what had happened, and if any, in their past semester. It’s different this semester ‘cause all of them are new transferees, from another university outside the metro

the five of them love like crazy. Maybe it’s because they’re in college, since they’re adolescents, or maybe, just maybe, these young boys and girls are just plain crazy people who know how to feel...

Diane
Let's start off with a girl. Let's call her Diane – she’s a tigress. For months, she has been missing her ex-girlfriend. YES. she did have a homosexual relationship. It has been like that since the transfer, because her ex was left back at the old school. This was very hard for Diane 'coz she thinks about her all the time and about how they would have been if they were still together. ‘Cause their literal separation led to this rather figurative separation. She does love her still and been missing her the entire semester. Even to the point of shedding tears and well, drinking booze.

Jane
If Diane had a girlfriend, this other girl, Jane, wishes she was one. There's this guy she's been into for almost a year now - the bad thing, Jane's guy was also left back at the old school. This 'thing' started out as a crush, then later on she found out that he has a crush on her too... So the 'thing' goes by without growing into a...relationship, which makes Jane really bitter about it, but events of the past few days make her look forward to some other 'thing' today....

Lex
If Jane is looking forward to something new, Lex is looking behind at a past relationship. He and his boyfriend broke up a few weeks ago. they have been together for more than a year..so it makes the break-up even worse. Lex and his ex (oh, rhyming! haha) used to live in the same house, in the same room, back at their old school. The relationship started out with the guy courting Lex, practically begging him to be his boyfriend... Lex used to close his doors to things like that but with the guy’s persistence and effort, they later had a relationship. But now that it is over, all of that shatters Lex.

Migz

When it comes to love, is it worse to be experiencing something that’s really messed up, or experience nothing at all? What’s hard for Migz is that he has had flings and relationships back in their past school but had stopped like he’s gotten a dry spell. Migz has liked many persons the past semester but like I said, nothing ever really happened. Not one of those petty crushes or hook-ups ever blossomed into something anything more meaningful than what they just are – feelings that don’t grow.

Haley

If there was someone in the group who’d want to get drunk the most, it would be Haley. It’s her first time feeling something reeeaally special for someone. And you know what they say; every ‘first time’ is important…and special too. That’s pro’lly the reason why she wants to get drunk and all. Lately she’s been falling apart, ‘cause she has now lost part of what’s kept her together for the semester – the special thing she feels for a certain Katy. But she’s still hoping that all that special feelings she has felt wouldn’t go to waste.

Diane, Jane, Lex, Migz and Haley may be going through hard times lately, and that is precisely why they’re all at one table and in one short story...

Not true. Why they are all sitting around the same table, why they’re sharing drinks and telling stories, why they’re all in this very blog – what brought them together in an experience of self expression – is not about the pain, rather it’s about something more meaningful. This blog, that experience,… THIS, IS ABOUT THEM. This is about the five crazy college students who call each other ‘friends’. The rationale of looking at pain is not for merely acknowledging the pain, the reason behind it is beyond that – it is to face the facts that first, there is pain, secondly and more importantly, there are people to get you through the pain.

--- A cliché may say that it’s the scars make a person tougher and more beautiful in the end, but I’d rather believe that it’s not the scars that make one tougher or more beautiful; it’s the process of learning from it.

by Mickey Eva VIII

Blog Entry 1 : Dahon.

A told a friend of mine I'd be making a new blog. I've told myself I should write about things less serious than I usually do at http://mickeyeva.blogspot.com, so here's my very first entry.
That friend of mine told me to write something about...well, dahon. Well let's start with some dramatic introduction. :))

have you ever touched or observed a leaf?

If you haven't, then that sucks.

If you have, then you're lucky...coz you'd be able to relate to an experience of mine.

Back in Grade School I loved Science. It did not love me back though. but that school of thought is not important here. so moving on... back to the leaf.

Leaves are usually green in color and average in size (cause if its not the average size, then its not the average leaf. ) Most leaves don't really smell good. But Pine trees do. (is it the leaves though? that make it smell good? well I don't know...) I miss Baguio, the scent of Pine trees and the crisp air. hmm, I'd love to visit that place...wait. back to the leaf.

Leaves come in all shapes, some are long and narrow, some are round and wide. I think the shapes are the way they are because they have to adjust to some factors. but one shape is real cute - the heart shape. Heart shaped leaves are common huh? Don't even start with love 'cause love is one truly complicated thing and so are...LEAVES. back to the leaf, Mickey.

Leaves have veins too, the pattern is just awesome. and you don't have to be real stoned to appreciate that. (but you'd get to appreciate some kind of leaf that gets you real stoned. haha) That pattern is called "Dendritic" - a pattern not just seen in leaves, but in branches, rivers, nerves, tissues and many others as well.

Nature is wonderful.

It gives us something to study about (like my grade school science)

It blesses our world with beauty...in places and things we see and experience (like my Baguio experience)

But above all, we should thank nature for giving us LIFE. Life in the sense that we breathe, eat and drink and LIFE in the lives of others - that our love for them gives meaning to our lives.

In the end, that one simple LEAF reminds the young simple boy in me, that the vast realm of nature in all its forms gave us, the entire humanity, knowledge, beauty, love and life.